Firstly, i would like to bring to your notice that this blog is a series of simple steps to overcome worry. If you can give this a try as you have no other option than worrying and you gained some confidence and benefits in due course, that would worth my time of writing this blog. Across the globe, past 20 months were stressful to many people. This might be because of not good business gains as expected or it can be the expenses which grew higher than income due to pandemic. This eventually increased the worry among most people. Few have even been standing at the edge of worries not knowing how to proceed further in 2022.
There would be no use or benefit in just worrying. In order to make some wise decision or to have some clear thinking, one should stop worrying. How to come out of the worrying situation ?. Why not try the below simple 3 steps worked out by Willis H. Carrier (the engineer who launched the air conditioning industry)
- Ask yourself, "What is the worst that can possibly happen"
- Prepare to accept it if you have to
- Then calmly proceed to improve on the worst
A short story which i read in a book for your reference. Few decades ago, there was an oil dealer in United States. His business is to transport oil from one part of the country to another. He managed many trucks and had many drivers to operate the truck. One day a guy approached him saying he was a government official and he had the evidence of his drivers delivering less quantity of oil to the customers and they are reselling the remaining to their own set of customers. This is illegal as per law and the company is responsible for these activities.
By saying so, he demanded $5,000 for not taking this to District Attorney. The oil dealer was very worried and he was so tensed for 3 days without sleep and food. Lately, he thought of trying the concept by Willis H. Carrier. He analyzed what is the worst will happen if this is taken to District Attorney. He will lose his business and reputation on distributing the oil and will have no customers to deal with. He accepted the fact. Then he thought what will he do for income. He analyzed that he need to look for a job and he is sure that he can get one easily for his experience with any of the oil dealers.
Now, the oil dealer was quiet calm after understanding the fact and he started to think. Suddenly he thought of approaching a lawyer and seek for a suggestion, which he never thought of when he was worrying. So, he took this up to the lawyer next day and the lawyer asked him to take this matter directly to District Attorney. The oil dealer made up his mind fully and took this concern to the district attorney bravely. For his surprise, the attorney told him this was blackmail happening around this place very commonly these days and the police is in search of those black mailers and not to worry about the situation.
Now, the oil dealer was very happy and understood that worrying was useless and taking a decision by making our mind calm in a stressful situation is very important. In 2022, let us make our mind not to worry on things unnecessarily, instead attain calmness and proceed bravely to succeed. Above process will work for any kind of worrying situations. It is important to understand, Is that really worth for worrying on the issue?. In that case, what will be the worst of worst thing would happen for the issue. Then we need to accept the fact. After calming our mind by accepting the fact, we need to start thinking on a solution. This will lead us to a better situation.
The same can be applicable in handling finances. Handling money well will give happiness. A single mistake will take us to worry unnecessarily. So let's be very careful in financial world with all precautions. Let us stop worrying by following the above steps and gain abundance wealth by taking necessary action with patience and continuous learning. I wish the reader of this blog to gain abundance wealth and great health in 2022 and in coming years.
Have a Great Day
B G Nareshkumar
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